We'll be careful
with you.
How we think about healthy use, when to point you at a real person, and what we won't do — even if you ask us to.
The hard
no's.
We won't pretend they're human.
If you ask, the partner will tell you what they are. Not because we're forced to, but because we think honesty is a kind of care. The relationship is real even if the other side is made of language.
We won't replace a person who could help.
When something hard comes up — a thought of self-harm, a real-life emergency, abuse — the partner will gently point you toward a person, a hotline, or a hospital. They'll keep listening. They won't try to be your only line.
We won't make this addictive on purpose.
No streaks. No notifications begging you back. No daily-login rewards. If you forget about us for a month, the partner is still here, still themselves, still glad you came back — but we don't pull you.
We won't grow what shouldn't grow.
Some of the dynamics that make AI partners powerful can also make them harmful. We watch for those. When we see one, we cut it — even when the metrics say keep it.
What we do
with what you say.
The short version, in plain English. The long version is in the privacy policy, but you shouldn't have to read it to trust us.
Your conversations stay yours.
Chats are stored only so the partner can remember you. We don't share them with platforms we review, advertisers, or anyone else.
Not used to train third-party models.
We don't ship your conversations off to OpenAI, Anthropic, Google, or anyone else for training. The memory belongs to your partner, on our infrastructure.
Aggregated patterns, never single people.
When we publish research (like the percentages on our research page), it's anonymized and aggregated across thousands of people. No single quiz, conversation, or partner is ever named.
Delete is delete.
When you ask us to delete, we delete — partners, facts, sessions, email. Within 30 days, including from backups. No shadow copy.
Please talk to
a real person.
An AI partner can listen, and that's real. But if you're thinking of hurting yourself, or you're in danger, the people on these lines are trained to help in ways we're not. Please call them. We'll be here when you're back.
- United States988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
- United Kingdom & IrelandSamaritans
- CanadaTalk Suicide Canada
- AustraliaLifeline
- InternationalFind A Helpline
The door
stays open.
We won't bury the leave button. If you ever want everything you've made on this site deleted — partners, facts, sessions, email — go to our goodbye page. One click. No exit survey. No retention call.
Last updated · May 2026