Privacy, in plain English

What we keep,
and what we don't.

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Rating: 4.9 (4 reviews)

The short version: we keep what makes the product work, and nothing else. You can ask for it back, or ask us to forget, whenever you want.

What we collect

If you take the quiz, we record your eight answers and the archetype it returned, tied to a random session id (not your name).
If you create a companion, we store the companion's name, what they call you, the archetype you forked from, your chosen register, the avatar (if generated), and every message exchanged with that companion. This is what makes them remember you.
If you give us your email, we attach it to your account so you can come back from another device. Optional.
We log a session cookie (psn_ses) so the site remembers which user you are. It's a random string, not your data.
We log basic request metadata for security (IP, user agent, timestamp) for 30 days. After that it's deleted from our logs.

We don't collect your name unless you tell us.
We don't sell your data. We don't sell anything to anyone right now.
We don't fingerprint you across the web.
We use Microsoft Clarity for anonymous session replay (heatmaps, where the site confuses people), Meta Pixel and Google Ads tags for ad attribution, and our own server-side analytics. Personally identifying fields are scrubbed before Clarity recording. None of these services receive your messages with your companion.

You. The infrastructure that runs this site (us, our database host, our LLM provider). That's it.
Your messages and your companion's responses pass through Google's Gemini API to generate the next response. Per Gemini's API terms, paid API content is not used to improve their models.
We do not share your conversations with the platforms we review, advertisers, or anyone else.
We do not read your conversations except when investigating an abuse report or a system bug, and even then we minimize what we look at.

Forever, by default — until you ask us to forget. Memory is the product, and a year-old companion who forgot you wouldn't be a companion.
If you click "forget everything" on /goodbye, we delete your user record, all your companions, every message, every fact, every digest, and your session cookie within 30 days (including from backups).
If your account is inactive for two years and there's no email attached, we'll delete it ourselves with a 30-day notice. If your email is attached, we'll write before doing anything.

You can ask us to show you everything we have on you. /me/export downloads it as JSON.
You can ask us to delete it all. /goodbye does it in one click.
You can ask us to correct anything you think is wrong. Write to [email protected].
If you're in the EU, UK, California, or another jurisdiction with these rights codified — they apply to you the same way they apply to everyone.
We don't auto-make decisions about you using AI in any meaningful sense beyond generating the next message in a conversation you started.

We set one essential cookie (psn_ses) for your session. You can't opt out of that one — without it, we can't tell you apart from anyone else.
We also load Microsoft Clarity for anonymous session replay (PII-scrubbed before recording), Meta Pixel for ad attribution and remarketing, and Google Ads tag for the same. These load for every visitor; we don't gate them behind a consent banner.
To opt out, use a tracker-blocking browser extension or block the third-party domains in your browser's content settings. Both Meta and Google also offer account-level opt-outs (facebook.com/ads/preferences, adssettings.google.com).
See /cookies for the full per-cookie list, durations, and opt-out paths.

This site is for adults. We don't knowingly accept users under 18.
If you tell our companions you're under 18, they're instructed (in their system prompt) to step out of any romantic register and recommend you talk to a real adult you trust.
If you're a parent or guardian and you believe your child has signed up here, write to [email protected] and we'll delete the account immediately.

Last updated: May 2026.
If we materially change anything (collect more, keep it longer, share with a new party), we'll post the change on /changelog and email anyone who's given us their email at least 14 days before it takes effect.

Last updated · May 2026