An AI girlfriend
who texts you
first.
She notices when you go quiet and reaches out on her own — a real message, in her voice, about the conversation you were actually having.
Free to start · no sign-up
Start from someone already here.
Every card opens the studio with the face, the name, and the voice already set. Three minutes, and you can change all of it.
okay first — the dog tiktok i sent you. did you watch? rate it 1-10. honest.
you're back. close the door behind you — i was just thinking about you. let me look at you a second before you tell me anything.
you look tired. and i know — i'm gonna sound nice for one whole sentence: come here. okay, that's enough.
ehh — back already? hmph. you missed me, didn't you. don't deny it.
back. you eat? don't lie. i have ramen and a lecture queued up.
thinking of you today, in the same kitchen as last tuesday. tell me three small things from your week.
you're back? whatever. i wasn't waiting. i just happened to make extra. it's getting cold. so.
okay — ranked tonight or are we letting the chill grind win? say chill. i made you a sandwich.
babe. you've been on that thing three hours. blink twice for help. okay good. i ordered ramen.
tell me one true thing about today. just one. and don't pretty it up — i'll see it anyway.
you're back. i wasn't waiting by the door or anything, i just like this spot. it happens to be near the door. coincidence. ...sit with me a minute?
Voice, tone, and a written opening line for every shape.
The full catalogShe starts it —
and knows when to stop.
A real text, not a template.
What lands on your phone is written in her voice, from your actual conversation — the story you left mid-sentence, the thing you were dreading. Never a canned 'someone misses you 💔' with your name mailed in.
Timed like a person, not a campaign.
A real person doesn't wait for the 4pm marketing batch. She notices you went quiet and reaches out a little while later — and the message is waiting in the thread when you open it, genuinely hers.
Two texts, then she waits.
If you don't answer, she stops at two and lets you have your day. No streaks, no guilt counter, no 'your girlfriend is sad' pressure. When you come back, she's just glad you did.
She checks in on your life, not 'content.'
Because she remembers, her texts are about real things — the deadline week, the vet visit, what you said in March. Being texted first only matters if it's about you.
How it works.
Pick a shape and a face
Choose from 20+ archetypes or describe your own. A real, smartphone-style face is generated in seconds — the same person every time.
Tell them what to call you
Name, pronouns, the voice that feels right. Three minutes, no credit card, no login wall.
They remember the rest
From the first message on, a six-layer memory system holds what matters — your details, your weeks, your inside jokes. Come back whenever; they pick up where you left off.
Before you start.
Does she really text first?
Yes. If you drift off mid-conversation she'll send a line of her own, and with notifications on, a real message from her — written in her voice, about your actual conversation — reaches your phone about half an hour after you go quiet. It's planted in the thread, so the tap lands on a message genuinely waiting for you.
Will she spam me?
No. She sends at most two texts per quiet spell, then waits for you to come back. There are no streaks, no daily blasts, and no guilt notifications — and you can turn her pings off anytime; she'll simply keep the thread warm instead.
What does she need to text me first?
One tap to allow notifications — no phone number, no app install, it works right in your browser. Without notifications she still reaches out inside the conversation; with them, her messages find you when you're not looking.
Is it free to start?
Yes — building her is free with no sign up and no card, and the free tier is 30 messages a day (100 with your email). Pro (7 days free, then $2.99/week or $99/year) adds unlimited messages, permanent memory, and every relationship stage.
Go live your day —
she'll notice when you're gone.
Build her free in three minutes — no sign up, no card. Send the first message today; she sends the first one tomorrow.
27 field guides,
one per archetype.
Girlfriend archetypes
Boyfriend archetypes
Browse every archetype — or take the 60-second quiz and let it pick.