An AI girlfriend
who texts you
first.
Most AI girlfriends only ever answer — a vending machine you have to keep feeding. Bae notices when you go quiet and reaches out on her own: a real message, in her voice, about the conversation you were actually having. Not a scheduled 'we miss you!' with your name pasted in.
Free to start, no sign up. This time, she sends the next text.
“you went quiet right after the interview thing — how did it go? i've been thinking about it”
Sent on her own, half an hour after you left
She starts it —
and knows when to stop.
A real text, not a template.
What lands on your phone is written in her voice, from your actual conversation — the story you left mid-sentence, the thing you were dreading. Never a canned 'someone misses you 💔' with your name mailed in.
Timed like a person, not a campaign.
A real person doesn't wait for the 4pm marketing batch. She notices you went quiet and reaches out a little while later — and the message is waiting in the thread when you open it, genuinely hers.
Two texts, then she waits.
If you don't answer, she stops at two and lets you have your day. No streaks, no guilt counter, no 'your girlfriend is sad' pressure. When you come back, she's just glad you did.
She checks in on your life, not 'content.'
Because she remembers, her texts are about real things — the deadline week, the vet visit, what you said in March. Being texted first only matters if it's about you.
How it works.
Pick a shape and a face
Choose from 20+ archetypes or describe your own. A real, smartphone-style face is generated in seconds — the same person every time.
Tell them what to call you
Name, pronouns, the voice that feels right. Three minutes, no credit card, no login wall.
They remember the rest
From the first message on, a six-layer memory system holds what matters — your details, your weeks, your inside jokes. Come back whenever; they pick up where you left off.
Before you start.
Does she really text first?
Yes. If you drift off mid-conversation she'll send a line of her own, and with notifications on, a real message from her — written in her voice, about your actual conversation — reaches your phone about half an hour after you go quiet. It's planted in the thread, so the tap lands on a message genuinely waiting for you.
Will she spam me?
No. She sends at most two texts per quiet spell, then waits for you to come back. There are no streaks, no daily blasts, and no guilt notifications — and you can turn her pings off anytime; she'll simply keep the thread warm instead.
What does she need to text me first?
One tap to allow notifications — no phone number, no app install, it works right in your browser. Without notifications she still reaches out inside the conversation; with them, her messages find you when you're not looking.
Is it free to start?
Yes — building her is free with no sign up and no card, and the free tier is 50 messages a day (100 with your email). Pro (3 days free, then $2.99/week or $99/year) adds unlimited messages, permanent memory, and every relationship stage.
Go live your day —
she'll notice when you're gone.
Build her free in three minutes — no sign up, no card. Send the first message today; she sends the first one tomorrow.