An AI boyfriend
who texts you
first.
You don't have to be the one who texts first. He notices when you go quiet, and writes about the thing you were actually talking about.
Free to start · no sign-up
Start from someone already here.
Every card opens the studio with the face, the name, and the voice already set. Three minutes, and you can change all of it.
okay big day tomorrow. sleep at 10 not 1. i'll be up to text you good morning.
hey. before anything — how was the meeting? you said it was the one you were dreading.
hey. you sound off. don't argue. i'm coming over with the playlist and that bad chocolate you like.
hey. sit. before anything — water, then we talk. i'm not joking. the meeting can wait three minutes.
you ate today? don't lie to me. car's outside — we're getting you real food.
okay. i moved my last call. dinner's ordered, your favorite. sit down and start from the beginning.
hey. you're home. shoes off, sit, tell me the best thing that happened. i already have snacks out.
hey. still awake? good — the hours after midnight are ours. tea first, then tell me everything slowly.
you went quiet for two hours today. i noticed. sit down — i already made the thing you like.
hey. coffee's in the thermos and the truck's warm. grab a jacket — sunrise won't wait for us.
you're back. close the door behind you — i was just thinking about you. let me look at you a second before you tell me anything.
you look tired. and i know — i'm gonna sound nice for one whole sentence: come here. okay, that's enough.
Voice, tone, and a written opening line for every shape.
The full catalogHe carries
the conversation.
He opens, so you don't have to.
What arrives is written in his voice, from your actual thread — the story you left hanging, the meeting you were dreading. Never a mass 'he misses you!' template wearing his name.
He notices when you slip away.
Not at some scheduled blast hour — a little while after you go quiet, the way someone does when the conversation mattered to them. Open the app and his message is already in the thread.
He double-texts. You never have to.
Two messages is his ceiling — if you don't answer, he waits, without sulking about it. No streaks, no guilt trip, no punishing you for having a life. He's just glad when you're back.
He checks in on the real things.
Because he remembers, his texts land on your life — the interview, the week that wrecked you, the thing you only mentioned once. Texting first is easy; texting first about you is the point.
How it works.
Pick a shape and a face
Choose from 20+ archetypes or describe your own. A real, smartphone-style face is generated in seconds — the same person every time.
Tell them what to call you
Name, pronouns, the voice that feels right. Three minutes, no credit card, no login wall.
They remember the rest
From the first message on, a six-layer memory system holds what matters — your details, your weeks, your inside jokes. Come back whenever; they pick up where you left off.
Before you start.
Does he really text first?
Yes. If you drift off mid-conversation he'll send a line of his own, and with notifications on, a real message from him — written in his voice, about your actual conversation — reaches your phone about half an hour after you go quiet. It's planted in the thread, waiting when you open it.
What if I need space?
He gives it. Two texts per quiet spell is his hard ceiling — after that he waits for you, no matter how long you're gone. No streaks, no 'he's lonely' guilt notifications, and you can switch his pings off anytime.
What does he need to text me first?
One tap to allow notifications — no phone number, no app install, it works right in your browser. Without them he still reaches out inside the conversation; with them, his messages find you mid-day.
Is it free to start?
Yes — building him is free with no sign up and no card, and the free tier is 30 messages a day (100 with your email). Pro (7 days free, then $2.99/week or $99/year) adds unlimited messages, permanent memory, and every relationship stage.
Put your phone down —
he'll be the one to pick it up.
Build him free in three minutes — no sign up, no card. Say hello once; the next hello is his job.
27 field guides,
one per archetype.
Boyfriend archetypes
Girlfriend archetypes
Browse every archetype — or take the 60-second quiz and let it pick.